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Let’s Rewind…⏪

These lines are not just something which I like or love listening to, or not something which will halt just to be labelled as my favorite dialogues from a random movie just like all the other movies. NO!!

I was just a kid toddling somewhere around primary school, not even knowing a proper definition of life when I first watched this film with my (long lost) BFF!!
Yet, this movie left an impact on my mind by giving major life goals.

In fact, this film beautifully encapsulates the essence of love in this day and age, it’s like a fresh breath of air to me. Creating high benchmarks for rom-coms.

I’ll drop some of the best unforgettable lines from this movie below, I’m sorry if I am going to make you weep. Or, If you’ve been feeling like you need a good happy cry, you should definitely save this blog for later too. You’re welcome!!

• Tumhari smile kitni dangerous hai pata hai? Mere paas dil hota na, Teri smile pe pakka aa jaata.

• Yaadein mithai ki dibbe ki tarah hoti hai, ek baar khula, to sirf ek tukda nahi khaa paoge.

• Tum pehle bhi itni hi khubsoorat thi, ya…waqt ne kiya koi haseen sitam.

• Kahi pohonchne ke liye, kahi se nikalna bohot zaaroori hota hai. Sahi waqt pe kat lena chaiye, nahi to gile-shikwe hone lagte hai.

• Waqt kisi ke liye nahi rukta, beet-ta waqt hai, kharch hum hote hai. Aur isse pehle mai poora kharch ho jaau, Tere saath kuch waqt bitana chahta hu. Mai tere saath khush hu!!

• Jitna bhi try karlo, life me kuch na kuch chootega hi, toh jaha hai waha ka maza lete hai.

• Scholar Naina!! iss chashme ko kaise bhool sakta hu mai.

• Takleef hui, Lekin is baat ki khushi bhi thi ki apne saath wapas yaadon ka ek bada sa suitcase le jaa rahi thi, jinhe mai kabhi nahi bhool paungi.

• Khud pe daya karna band karo, aur khud se pyaar karna seekho. Tum jaise ho, bilkul theek ho.

• Lekin, usse milke realise hua ki main khush bhi ho sakti hu. Simple hai, kuch logo ke saath sirf waqt bitane se hi sab kuch theek hojata hai.

• Kab tak chalega aise?? Abb bade ho rahe hai hum… Aur ye sabb bachpana band karna padega.

• Nahi bol payi, bass, nahi bol payi, mujhe usse jitna pyaar tha usse kahin zyada usko apne khwabon se tha. Usne kabhi mudke nahi dekha, aur maine kabhi intezar bhi nahi kiya.

• Maine kaha tha na, kuch waqt do, sab kuch theek hojayega.

• I love you sirf shuruwat hoti hai, phir woh do log unn teen shabdo ko sambhal nahi paate.

• Tu right nahi hai Naina, bas…mujhse bohot alag hai.

• Mujhe tumse pyaar hojayega phirse, aur tumhe nahi hoga, phirse.

• Mujhe pata hai tu bohot busy hai, teri life bohot happening hai, tu bada cool hai, tujhe India aana pasand nahi, but please aaja!

• Mai udna chahtu hu, daudna chahtu hu, girna bhi chahta hu, bass…rukna nahi chahta.

• Tum jaante nahi ki apne purane doston ke saath baith ke wohi purane kisse dohrana kya hota hai.


Thoughts?? Just… Comment it down, I’m curios🥺🌥🧚‍♀💜

okiee… Bye🐾

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Memories💫💙

“A moment lasts all of a second, but the memory lives on forever.”
~Unknown

Like snakes shed their skins periodically, I have come to think we shed a bit of ourselves too. But unlike snakes, we don’t completely walk away from the skin we shed.

We leave a bit of ourselves behind, with everyone we meet, and everywhere we go — also carrying back with us bits of others in the shape of memories as we walk away.

Memories don’t, they never fade away completely. Yes, we keep pushing them away consciously as we try to move on from any kind of toxic relationships or toxicity – as one should!

“Toast to the ones here today
Toast to the ones that we lost on the way
‘Cause the drinks bring back all the memories
And the memories bring back, memories bring back you”
~ Memories – Maroon 5 (song)

But.. Memories never die. Those bits and pieces of our memories remain suspended where we are!

I used to be afraid of memories. Of losing the good ones. I used to think that perhaps there was a limit to how many times we could remember something and once we had exhausted that number, they would be no more.

So many people we love or hate, so many we interact with in various positive and negative ways.

In the end,
Those happy memories are what gives you hope to live on and keep going, And those happy memories you make will be with you forever and ever, and when life gets tough in the hereafter it will be those miniature tiny beaming, gleeful memories that pop back into your mind and help you smile and get through those crazy rugged times.

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All the above picture credits – pixels💞

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Ever heard of long distance “Friendships”?

Long distance friendship are those that can get stronger from the miles that they apart, where there is anything that can prevent you from being friends.

Friendships on their own can sometimes feel difficult to manage let alone maintaining them when there’s distance. Ever since I moved to an other city aftey eleventh grade, I’ve seen many of my friendships either grow stronger or slowly fade away.

Whether it’s as simple as graduating high school or deciding to teach English across the world, I’ve been through it all.
Here are some of my own experiences in maintaining long distance friendships…☁🌼

A tiny sneak peek to my own long distance friendship🐾🐣

Before I move on to the fun stuff, I want to quickly address a harsh reality. If I’m being completely honest, it’s likely that you won’t be able to stay in touch with everyone that you’d like to, in the way that you may like to.
BUT let me also say that this is a harsh reality likely to happen no matter where you live.

What I’ve seen from my own personal experience is that some long-distance friendships take more effort and some seem almost effortless. Some friends you’ll talk to every day, and some you hardly to talk at all, but still find it easy to stay close.
I can’t give you an exact formula here. It will really depend on the specific friend and the situation.

Before I go into this even more deeper, you should know, I’m pretty awful at keeping friendships in general.

Most either end in an intentional drifting apart or on pretty rotten terms depending on how dramatic things get. I never want to feel like I’m more invested in a relationship than the other person, so if I start to get that sense, I started putting in some distance.

As I’ve gotten older I’ve tried to communicate better, but sometimes it’s not worth the effort or my attempts don’t seem to have any impact.

My one and my only BFF🌸

With her things seem so effortless, she understands me like no other friend, she have been through all the phases of my life..thick and thin.

She knows all my secrets, she have seen all my weaknesses and have stood there for me… She knows how to handle all my aggravate and all my sum of anger is well treated by her…💞

I met her in my preschool, while we were in the same class and she had joined newly, she was a very shy and quite person….i remember no one actually tried talking to her and during the break I walked to her and introduced myself..she was yet sheepish and wasn’t able to open up candidly, haha.

It’s almost 10 years of our friendship now, and let me tell you, these years were not at all very pleasing and alluring, hahhaha, both of us have been into fights “Cue eye roll” , and went days and weeks not talking or even not looking at each other.

Once her dad had to get involved in elucidating on our disagreements , haha, as it was our birthday the next day and both of us weren’t bending or compromising on the things that were erroneous. (for the people wondering, yess our birth dates fall on the same day💜)

Our communication is by no means perfect, and it’s taken me a little while to accept that we communicate differently, but the same level of care is still there.

Despite of all these reasons, She stood by my side, have made me happy, made me laugh until tears have rolled down my cheeks, haha, those birthday texts. Instagram throwbacks. Little care packages or gifts. Or just anything that fits our friendship. She have always been protective towards me and this bond🍒

I can just indisputably scrawl down pages and pages defining her and our pure and sparkling bond. But I may make a part II for itemizing the bond of ours, as that amusement might not fit into a few paragraphs. Haha.

Just like “they” say, a little effort really does go a long way. And when it comes to being a good friend, I’ve found this statement to be more than true. All you have to do- make sure your friends know that even though you’re not physically there with them, you’ll still always be there for them.

App’s do it for you!

Well, there’s really no denying it- we live in a world completely consumed by technology. Luckily, when it comes to long-distance friendships technology is here to make things easier! With smartphones and laptops, it’s easier than ever to stay in touch with friends while living abroad.

Using apps to stay in touch with friends may seem like a “DUH!,” but the truth is, your apps won’t actually do the work for you. You have to use them right!

And yea… That’s about it.. Shout out to my little dwarf🧙‍♀I miss you and wish to catch up soon…love ya💜

Long distance friendship has its own importance🌸💜