I’m done with people, completely. I don’t put any efforts to make friends or to make them stay.
I’ve come to a very true realisation that everyone leaves. That’s the way of the world
Nothing surprises me…you may find me giving fake expressions like…. “Awwww”, “ohh my gawdd” , or “woooowwww”…..Duh!!
I’m too kind of dead inside to feel anything, at all. Planning to hide behind a wall and jump out to scare me? jokes on you.
There are days where I’m like Yoda, giving lessons of love and life to my friends, and then, there are days where I can’t tell the difference between purple and blue.
And ….my advices range from “don’t give up” to “why are you even trying?”
I like the stories of my friends spending the night dancing away, but I’m that person who wants to be home by 9pm in the comfort of my bed.
Every single one is up-to date with all the social media apps, from maintaining streaks to instagram feed, everyone is trying to be “cool”. But then, there’s me who has even left displaying my photos on profile picture.
I find my religious stuff more peaceful and interesting (the only thing I’m proud of) than whatever people of my age are listening to…
I don’t show love or any of my craziness to people I talk these days… I don’t want to.. I feel nobody that genuine.
And I think, all of these experiences make you mature🌸
The only hope lightening in me is I know that…. This too shall pass💜
….Boredom is a real thing🤧
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I’m sure every single one reading to this blog would relate to this in some or other way…, all of us want to become a better person, but some of us don’t know how.
Every single day before going to bed I sit their and try to reflect and see if I’ve done anything bad or hurt someone or see what can I do to become better.
Not only that, but I have a goal of leaving an imprint on the world for doing great things. By setting aside some time each day to reflect on what behaviors were good and bad, I have the opportunity to grow.
Just to be honest, Me myself, I struggle each day to improve myself and to get better in every way I can. It is not easy, but trust me it is the most beautiful🌸 thing. Like they say…
“There is never an excuse for not being a good person”
So, how to be a better person?
Here are a few ways to become a better person through self-development:
To willing to change In order to become a better person, you have to be willing to change.
Change is the only way you can help grow and progress into the person you want to be. Most of them are strictly against changing, which can make it hard to grow!
When you keep an open mind and are willing to change, you are able to grow into the person you want to become.
Fling your anger Most of us ruin those innumerable subjects of life by letting anger and rage alter the decision-making skills. TBH, I am a very angry person, and it is very difficult to control the anger especially at the times when someone gets into your skin.
But anger only destroyes and effects my mental health with an increase of my blood pressure.
Controlling anger is an extreme difficult task to master, but trust me it’s is very beneficial and makes you the most beautiful person.
Find some way of relaxing your nerves when you’re angry, I just remember my lord and try to calm myself and it always works for me.
Forgive Forgiving someone who’ve hurt you is very difficult. Whenever I get upset on someone I simply ignore them and maintain distance.
That is the simplest you can also do, as wishing them bad or using curse language or being bitter on them for the rest of your lives will make it more difficult on yourself and would cause you mental illness.
Forgive the person who’ve hurt you or did wrong to you and move on quietly🌻
Listen to people Okay, so here all I have got to say is…People are extremely busy with their careers, families, and lives. Everyone is in a rush, but people rarely ever have time to listen to what others have to say.
I have always learnt it from my dad that listening to people and giving everyone a voice is one of the greatest things you can ever do.
Being a good friend You might be a terrible friend and not even realize it. That should scare you. Really, it should!
Sometimes our actions and the words that escape our mouths stop going through a filter. Then eventually we’re not even conscious of how horrible we are as a person/friend/lover/whatever.
There’s no universal method to being caring without being too pushy. Instead, you’ve got to figure out what works best and adjust as needed.
Good friends know how to pick up right where they left off no matter how long it’s been since they last saw each other.
I hope this helped you and if you feel it’ll help some of your close ones then do share this article with them and let them know that you do care for them💞☺🌼