Dreaming of pumpkin lattes, caramel apples, and turkey and mashed potatoes? So am I! It’s finally Autumn, a favorite season to many of us who enjoy the fun foods, festivities, and cooler weather.
So, half a part of my family resides in Canada and other parts of USA. Everytime they share pictures/vidoes of them being amused of this beautiful season my heart sparkles💖
Whatever I’ve experienced about this season is on video calls or images from my family😂😂….apparently, my aunt learnt how to make pumpkin spice latte or pie…Mmm!!
Therefore, this is what I feel about the season I’m scribbling below also sharing a few bonny and handsome pictures👇✨💜
There’s something very special in the air at this time of the year.
A crisp autumn breeze, crackling log fires and bristling leaves, floating delicately towards the ground, inspire many people to celebrate this picturesque season.
Trees that were once green explode into beautiful hues of gold, red, and orange.
September is a great month weather-wise, as warm days start to give way to cool, crisp nights.
When it’s intensely hot in the summer, fashion can sometimes go by the wayside in favor of coolness and comfort. However, Autumn ushers in new fashions like jackets, sweaters, and boots that tend to be more flattering than shorts and flip flops, and more fun to wear.
Yeah! That’s it! As you can see, Autumn is definitely one of the best seasons of the year, offering festivities that the entire family can enjoy. What Autumn activities do you like to do with your family? Let me know in the comments!
“Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans.”
~ John Lennon
Ok, I am not trying to become a therapist here, but from past a few days I’ve been a little rigid on myself and my body…which I realised was very wrong!!
So, today I found myself giving some suggestion to each of you reading this. Maybe it’s the season, maybe it’s in the air. And maybe you can benefit, too. What I want to say repeatedly is, “Take good care of yourself.”
Somehow it’s seems so easy to forget to pay attention to our own needs.
We push through, keep going, and ignore ourselves until the well runs completely dry.
Then you wonder why you are exhausted, why you feel anxious and disconnected…
Taking care of yourself means counting yourself in.
You matter, you absolutely do. And your quality of life suffers when you neglect yourself.
We normally tend to find happiness in others which is not completely wrong, but eventually when we are happier with ourselves is when we can see happiness in others🌈
You lose a sense of your priorities, and you end up grasping for solutions just to keep your head above water.
Maybe you think that taking care of yourself is selfish. This is a common misconception that is patently untrue. Be there for your self🌸
Being caught up in your own stress doesn’t serve you or anyone else. Stop overthinking.
Commit to taking care of you for you, for your quality of life, so you can live with a full and open heart. And don’t have to lean on anybody to make you happy.
Here is the paradox: When you take good care of yourself, you get out of your own way. You are less self-focused. You aren’t captured by your needs, dramas, and obsessions.
Start with you, and you will experience great freedom in being open, peaceful, and awake to your life and everyone in it.
“Little by little, day by day, what is meant for you will find it’s way”
You will find someone who’d wait for an entire hour without getting mad at you, because they’d know you’re gonna be late, as usual.
You will find someone who’d laugh at your lamest jokes because they’d genuinely find them funny.
You will find someone who will let you have your space, but will be there for you, always.
You will find someone who brags about you to others when you are not around.
You will find someone who will sit and watch and all the Disney’s / Marvel movies with you even though they’d like DC more.
You will find someone who will love you as if you’re the last person alive on this planet.
You will find someone who’ll be your umbrella on a scorchy afternoon.
You will find someone who makes it safe to lay on their chest while they stroke your hair when you’ve had a bad day.
You will find someone who won’t keep a count of ‘sorry’s’ and ‘I love you’s’. Rather, who will make it all seem right.
You will find someone who will make pancakes for you.
You will find that someone who will cuddle with you for hours and let you sleep in their arms.
You will find someone who will just click with you so effortlessly that everything will seem alright with them.
You will find someone who will listen to all your rants, and hug you tight when you break down.
And, when you actually find that someone, you will know. You will know that why it didn’t work with anyone else. You will know why you felt restless in anyone else’s embrace. You will know why you stayed up all those nights.
But, when you are already blessed with someone as such, hold on to them as tight as you can and never let em go. They deserve all your love💜
Beauty of this book: The beauty of this book by Coelho is that it revolves around a real character with real incidents with a touch of fiction.
TBH, I never knew who Mata Hari was before I got my hands on this book, Perhaps, that is one of the main reasons which developed more interest in me to stay glued to the book other than the captivating style of writing the author possess.
The story begins with this not a very positive connotation, “Her only crime was to be an independent woman.” This gives a subtle underlying message of a woman who has lived on her own terms and has not been treated well by the society.
Story the book tells:
The first few paragraphs in it tell you about the challenges Mata Hari had faced from being penniless when she arrived in Paris to being an affluent dancer within a few months.
A couple of pages in the book only talk about the luxury items she used to carry in her suitcases while she used to travel from one part of the country to another for her dance shows.
She was as bewitching a courtesan as she was a dancer and ‘the era’s richest and most powerful men’ dreamed about her and some of them also made up to her.
The scene moves to World War I, when the country was only suspicious about each other’s activities, Mata Hari’s lifestyle came to question. She was arrested on accusation charges of espionage. Later, they describe about the letter exchanges between the protagonist and her lawyer. She was alleged to be a spy agent for France and Germany.
A little part of the story also traverses through her thoughts between writing letters and waiting for the final verdict. She discloses various events of her life from being sexually abused by her school principle to receiving materialist favors against nooky to her other encounters with men and eventually self-realization of how wasteful her life had been.
It’s that time of the book🥺 She’s been projected to be guilty of the choices she made and her heart full of remorse and repentance except considering working as a spy when she says, “I am a woman who was born at the wrong time and nothing can be done to fix this. I don’t know if the future will remember me, but if it does, may it never see me as a victim, but as someone who moved forward with courage, fearlessly paying the price she had to pay.”
And now the truth is, If it would had not been for the love of author I enjoy reading, I wouldn’t have picked up this book. I’m sure it impacts differently to different people as those who would have known about her history and grew in Holland, Paris hearing about her in stories would be able to relate better.
That is all I got to cover for the review of this book, which, I had read long ago. I hope I was able to give you a deep glimpse of the story🌈
Pages : 186 (You will love the extra fits in the book also the packaging and labeling)
This is my first nomination for any Award, when I got to know that I’m being nominated for this award I felt genuinely happy🥺🥰 (Aahh, teary eyes)
I was being nominated for the Sunshine Blogger Award by the lovely, @Shaheen Reviews , A Beautiful Cook❣️ Thank you so much!! 😊
However, if you aren’t already following her, I highly recommend you to quickly rush towards her page👆 to find some of the luscious and stunning food recipes😋
What is the Sunshine Blogger Award?
The Sunshine Blogger Award is given to those who are creative, positive and inspiring while spreading sunshine to the blogging community.
Now, how does it work and what are the rules?
•Thank the blogger(s) who nominated you in a blog post and link back to their blog. •Answer the 11 questions sent by the person who nominated you. •Nominate 11 new blog to receive the award and write them 11 new questions. •List the rules and display the Sunshine Blogger Award logo in your post and/or on your blog.
The questions set by Shaheen
Where do you get inspiration for your hobbies/interests/talents? – It is my Mom💜 and my Dadzu💜 who motivates me to do anything and have always stood by my decisions no matter what. I’m forever indebted to them🌈💗
Whatever your blog is about, when and why did you get interested in that topic? – My blog is all about personal blogging, I write on topics I’ve learned on my daily basis, and I love coming and sharing it with you guys🥰 I apply form known as creativity to see the beauty in all things i wish to accomplish as a part of my interest in blogging😇
Do you ever feel nervous before publishing a blog post? – Honestly, Yes, at times, because the topics or subjects you are interested in doesn’t mean that the rest of the world will also find it worth giving a read. Yet, I believe that my posts makes ones heart dance🙈
One thing that can lighten up you day in an instant? – There are a few, but any one thing is always getting to eat deserts…🌈💜
Most watched tv series? – I don’t have any “most watched” as I’m not a very huge fan of TV Series, but it can be The House Of Cards on instant.
Your comfort food? – Chicken Mandi
What is a Good morning like for you? – When I can get to do my morning prayers and a huge mug of latte🤤💜
What’s your favorite thing about your blog? – I love when people comment on my posts and interacting or chatting with them or getting to know their opinions is my most favorite thing
What activity takes the most of your time? – Social media without a purpose or too much of socializing😬
Are you, so far, proud and satisfied with your blog’s progress? – Yes, Allhmd, I am! And I will bare the patience of growing and glowing even more🌈💜
And that’s it for my answers! Thanks again Shaheen for coming up with these questions and tagging me – these were so much fun to answer!
Obviously, you only have to do this if you want to, so no pressure if you don’t! And if you already did this at some point, I hope you don’t mind getting a different set of questions – feel free to take your time answering!
Questions for my nominees:
What is the purpose of you blogging?
What is your blog mostly focused on?
How long does it take you to write an average blog?
How did your family members react when you told them about your blogging decision?
Are you also frequently asked this question that “Do you make any money out of blogging”?? How do you answer it?
What is that one topic you always wanted to write a blog on but couldn’t for any reason!?
What is that dream destination of yours?
Has blogging changed your life overall?
Do you study/do any additional job other than writing blogs?
Any three random facts about yourself!?
One of your favorite post you’ve written?
Okay Guys, so that’s it for today, I hope you liked my answers, I have genuinely answered them all also, please let me know your opinions on my questions, let’s chat in the comment section…👻
Note⚠ I haven’t mentioned any detailing of the show, so do not worry of the spoilers.
Okay… I know that Vampire Diaries must be an too old topic for some of you to have a discussion over, but… Dude? Do we really need “specific” time period to talk about this show🥺🧡
The Vampire Diaries will forever be a favorite of mine. I still can’t believe that after watching the very first episode, I would get addicted to it and would still be so addicted!
My favorite Characters🥺💗
• Forever Damon💜
In reality, you will find all the characters very attractive, eventually this show is all about falling in love with the cast and crew.
But, Damon is something whole of a mood, he have a depth, when he is sad or hurt, he acts out.
He is sarcastic and will make you laugh😂💜
The way he loves Elena will make you crave for such man in your lives too….🥺💜
Woof, he is fire🔥💥, this character will make you hate him and you’ll eventually be threatened to watch him and his moves.
But, when it comes to his and Caroline’s little secretive sparkling love story, your heart will get all melted🥺❣️
I love her courage and her friendship with Damon (Boman)
She will get all your attention to her magic tricks…and the way she defeats her enemies💗
Did you know? The crow that is seen in the pilot is the reference to Damon, who is in the books had the power to transform into a crow. The producers said they didn’t run with that because they didn’t want to give him too many powers too quickly and leave no room for growth.
Some of my favorite moments from the series🥺💜
I hope you enjoyed these little moments from the series, there were many more but I couldn’t fit all of them as the blog would have got very lengthier😂. Tell me about your favorite shows or the parts from this series….😍🌈
I love flying and I love love Airport’s, me and my brothers just use to travel miles to see airport and those roads😂 and never left a chance to pick/drop my relatives whosoever travelled from other places.
When I was younger, I wanted to be a detective because of Sherlock Holmes💞…😝
I’m really bad at running, I have never taken part in Relay competitions during the inter-school sports meets😂
I love love love coffee, the smell of coffee itself makes me go all🤤🥵🤪
My favorite colours can only be Black, peach and Tiffany…Mmmm🌈
I love gardening, and one day I wish to have a huge farm with all varieties of greens and pinks / violets💚💗💜
I am a huge fan of deep oceans and water bodies… Gives me a lot of peace🌊🌸
Since my childhood I’ve been an admirer of Disney’s princess’s, Hehe, you won’t believe I had a huge collection of them as such in glass, spoons, plates, bowls, blankets, backpacks, pen boxes/pouches, clothes, footwears…etc, etc😂
I love sleeping on couches rather than on bed…it’s always comfort, later painful 😭 too as my back and neck freezes😂
I love baking, which is my stress buster🧚♀🌸
There you have it! Some fun facts about me. Now, it’s your turn. Tell me about yourself in the comments below.
I know it’s been quite late since I’ve posted anything or have written about any topic, mostly because this quarantine have made me meet myself 🌸
Nice to meet me.
Also, nowadays it is like, I’m lost but don’t know where.
Does it happen that you feel that you have lost a part of yourself, a part that you loved, a part that gave you confidence and it defined who you were?
No.. No, Nonono…i haven’t started doubting myself. Or being afraid of failing, of taking risks, or of being sure.
It is just that, My lockdown days have been a roller coaster of emotions for me.
I think my lockdown days have gone in a circle. You know, there is this song “Kho Gaye Hum Kahan” and I can so much relate to each inch of this song being initially, very bored, feeling like a prisoner(lol) being so restless and stressed, angry, cranky and annoyed.
Would just quickly wrap this blog up by saying that if you are able to read this blog of mine, and are surrounded with food, a roof above your head and a family that loves you, you are more lucky than half of the world today!
Count your blessings, stay safe, try not to panic and stress out.
Reach out for help if you need any because it is completely okay not to feel like yourself sometimes🌈
I’m so thankful to each and everyone of you…. We are a 100 member strong WordPress family now… Allhumdullilah 🥺💞
I never expected that this would just happen like so fast… I was expecting to cross 100 followers at least by the time of my birthday (21st NOV☁) but, achieved it much much before….🥺🤩
Yesss, I am very overwhelmed…!
Again… Thank you so much for all the likes, follows and comments….as I had already said I love when you guys share your opinions with me, I love reading them all… And love interacting with each one of you… 🌈
Comment down below in the section on the topics y’all want me to write on my next blog…i promise I’ll not let you down…🤞🧚♀
Finding the right person, a person you want to spend your life with, is the greatest accomplishment one can achieve. Yet, the unfortunate truth is that the right person doesn’t always come at the right time. And that makes all the difference.
It isn’t that you find the right person at a wrong time always, but it can happen.
We see it in all the movies. Boy meets girl. Boy and girl fall in love. And they live happily ever after – roll credits. How wonderful it would be if the world were so simple.
In reality relationships don’t work like that…it is because human beings are emotionally complicated and because we’re so emotionally complicated, we manage to make situations complicated.
And eventually… The relationship we trynna keep tied up in that string breaks. If you aren’t yet capable of being in a loving relationship then the two of you are doomed
If you ever fall in love,
Fall in love with someone who wants to know your favorite colour and just how you like your coffee.
Fall in love with someone who loves the way you laugh and would do absolutely anything to hear it.
Fall in love with someone who puts their head on your chest just to hear your heartbeat.
Fall in love with someone who kisses you in the public and is proud to show you off to everyone they know.
Fall in love with someone who will never be rude to to your tummy when it growls and gurgles.
Fall in love with someone who respects your parents the way they do theirs.
Fall in love with someone who makes you question why you were afraid to fall in love in the first place.
Fall in love with someone who leaves you random texts and those silly gifts.
Fall in love with someone who would never ever want to hurt you, intentionally or unintentionally!
Fall in love with someone who falls in love with your flaws and thinks that you are perfect just the way you are🌸
Fall in love with someone who thinks that you are the only one they want to wake up next to every day for the rest of their life.
Fall on love with someone who will hold your hand and will love you. Will love you. Will love you!!
“You deserve someone who’ll take you on cute breakfast dates and get you iced coffee. Someone who’ll give you neck kisses, head massages, and play with your hair. Someone to sir with and talk about big ideas and life. Someone to remind you how dope you are when you aren’t feeling so cool.”
Someone should do that for you, because you shouldn’t have to settle for anything less. You are to be loved, deeply and madly💗
L♡VE, Crazzy Pants🦄🌸
All the above images are inspired from Pexels🌸 and Instagram🌼